I can’t believe it’s another week, ang bilis ng panahon, feeling ko di pa ako nakapaghilamos Huwebes na uli ….
I can’t believe it either I’ve survived a 10-year marriage, 10 years with three children. Thing about this marriage is that I don’t cry over fights with my husband, in fact in those 10 years we really don’t have any major, major fight. I cry over the people around him, especially with issues involving my MIL. Grrrr…..
What is one big mistake that you did in your life? And what did you do to make it right?
Answer:
Good evening Las Vegas! I think the greatest mistake I made in my life was to decide to live in my MILs house, it robbed me of my natural abilities to make a home, and what did I do to make it right? None yet, because in the Philippines, culturally, it is a demeaning idea for someone, especially for younger people to leave their parents alone … Call me a sufferer for a cause, but there are other people involve and I don’t want them to get hurt and that’s my children. If only I could turn back time, then that would be the time, I can make it right. Thank you very much.
PS. I know pride kills, but this my only way to survive around here... please don't judge the writer .... the writer is the judge. This is her blog... she writes whatever she wants to write.....ahahahahah!
Haisst…. I’m getting emo… mouse on the Nostalgia badge above for more nostalgic marveling.
Hahahahaha mabubuang ako sa entry mo ate.. That major major, I was telling my husband about the cutom there in the Philippines.. re: in-laws , I told him that I am so glad I am not married to a Filipino wahhh.
ReplyDeletePanalo ang sagot, walang sinabi si Major major VR lol.. I thought 2 lang ang anak mo ate, tatlo pala hehehe.
Hi Vernz;) the one big mistake I made was not stand by my decision in my young years. I managed to right it later in my life though. Do you still live in your MIL's house? YOu and your husband looked so sweet on your wedding day. Blessings and (((hugs))) Jo
ReplyDeletewell done sis ... if your the contestant winner ka =)
ReplyDeletehahahahaha yeah, this is one of the reasons why we have blogs, right? so we can vent...blogging is certainly a therapy for me. i love this post! look at the bright side, your kids are growing up with their lola, not all kids have the privilege.:p grandparents are usually wonderful--mine were.
ReplyDeletehaha I thought before when you marry an unico hijo, you're lucky coz there's a ready house to live, di pala it's either the wife or the in-law who suffers if not in good terms, same situation with the cousin of my hubby, but this time it's his aunt who suffers the predicament. RIP na sya ngaun.
ReplyDeleteSo sweet... you look wonderful on your wedding dress. By the time you made a promise in front of God, I was just finished my high school and entering university LoL...
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about your MIL. I only stayed in my MIL's house for two weeks after wedding, then we moved into our own house until now. I never have any conflict with her so far :D
Hehehe starring jud ni MIL dinhi permanente bah sus girl ing ana sad nahitabo sa ako ig agaw tung una hangtud na nuon na nagbulag sila haist
ReplyDeleteI suppose that's the disadvantage of living with the in-laws. Walang katapusang pakikisama! I can sense you're a strong woman. Kaya mo e. I'm sure the kids are enjoying their grandpa's and grnadma's presence. Keep going for their sake.
ReplyDeleteTake care Vernz!
hhahaha...major major ang answer ni titser! wow, bongga te ha...10 years of blissful marriage with 3 chikiting...:) kami mag 6 nami karong december...tawon usa palang ang nagama...nyahahaha..hinay ug gasolina lagi...unsa inyo gamit te, premium or regular? nyahahaha...joke! mau pamo kay nana mo 3 ka bulilit..congrats ulit te....:)
ReplyDeletewhat a pretty dang bride! salamat sa paglabay te...brb rako later...naa pako lakwon...babosh!
And the winner is..... VERNZ! I am not judging you because I am not a judge, and I am not the blog owner hahaha
ReplyDeleteSeriously, pagkapait jud ni moipon tawon I am glad I am in america in that sense... kasi dili man uso na ipon dire....
you had a beautiful wedding. I know how you feel about living with your MIL. I hope in time you can live on your own. Cheers!
ReplyDelete10 years?!
ReplyDeletewow..
mine didnt last that long.. 7 years with three kids...the fact that were staying with my inlaws as well makes it really hard to survive.finally after 7 long years, "ex" decided to sumaKABILANG bahay.. :D supported of course my his own mother hahaha so that ends everything for us..
and the MRS UNIVERSE crown goes to, mommy VERNZ, haha, major, major ka tlg. kakatuwa.
ReplyDeletewe may have committed major blunder in our lives, when we know we've done it for a good cause, all our sufferings will have ended by ACCEPTANCE.
tnx for sharing, sis:)
Hahahahahahahaha....mabuang ko ug kinatawa nimo Vernz...anyway, sadgi lang kay naka survive naman ka...hala antusa na lang jud ng imong MIL, dili naman kaha na magdugay ahehe patawad po!...hehe utong taman sa ginhawa...mas okay noon ng PIL ang imo kalaban Vernz kaysa imo jud bana ang badlungon, kay sa ako baliktad...buotan kaayo ako mga PIL, pero ako bana ang buang...
ReplyDeleteGreat answer Maam Vernz...tama nga naman na if we can only turn back the time, it's when we can turn our mistakes into right ones..agree ako sa imoa
ReplyDeleteoi, naa pa japun ka dha mommy Vernz sa imong MIL karon? Anyway, that's a major, major answer! :-D And a major, major suffer I mean accomplishment too.. muahhh!
ReplyDeleteThat was a nice post and your answer can make you a beauty pageant winner. Your spunk , confidence, and genuine response has snagged you the crown.
ReplyDeleteLabay ako diri ate.. Oh diva, bisdak na rin ako lol.
ReplyDeletewohhoooo! way to go mis vernz raj. hahaha. nice answer. major major jud. anyway, ako pud, i have issues with my MIL and SIL kay ngpuyo mn pd mi sauna sa ila balay sauna. glad nakalain nami karon but naa ghapon ang issues. toink. hehehehe
ReplyDeleteCongrats at nka 10 na kayo. it is good that you have those pictures. Kami 20 years na and the memories in the paper was destroyed during ondoy.
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